A pair of Soles and a Soul that sold his Sawari

The title of this blog is inspired and borrowed from Robin Sharma ‘s The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari– an inspirational story about Julian Mantle – a high profile lawyer (or is it Robin ‘s own life) who quit his career and came to India searching for deeper purpose of life.

The Monk who sold his Ferrari

 

The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari is one of the all time bestseller motivation and self help books and compells readers to think about their life, goals and actions. I first came across this book in my MBA in 1997 and the book had reverse impact on me and I started ‘aspiring’ to own a Ferrari (OK! Ferrari may be an over stretch, but definitely a car!)- One has to own a ferrari to sell one- was the logic.

I bought my first car in the year 2000, it was not a Ferrari but Maruti Zen that felt like Ferrari both while driving and paying the monthly installments! On hind site that sounds funny! Isn’t selling ‘the’ Ferrari about Zen way of life?

Over the next 5 years I started planning and dreaming about a bigger car. I was not the ‘sports’ car kind but more the SUV. I bought a Suzuki Grand Vitara in 2008- I was passionate about driving and off roading. I wanted to drive across India on roads or otherwise- my dream was doing Raid de Himalaya. I could never Raid the Himalayas, however had a lot of fun with Vitara. Here’s a slice of what I loved doing first few years with the Vitara.

Note: Voice over by our friend and Chef Sonal

I have changed over the years in many ways and so has my love for cars and driving. I started spending more time on my Soles and with my Soul in the weekends. Running 4-6 hours on weekends became normal routine  and that went up to 10-12 hours once in 3-6 months. I am also on the path of  “searching for the greater purpose of life” and weekends and early mornings are great for the soul. To cut the long story short “I was left with no time for off-roading and I did not need a SUV.

One of my 2018 resolutions was to “BeCar”

“BeCar” is an abberation of the hindi word बेकार (BEKAR) which translates in english to “Floccinaucinihilipilification” or ” estimating something worthless” . I think, I first came across both  बेकार and floccinaucinihilipilification in middle school. Most people thought that I was “बेकार” all the time. Also, around the time when I was growing there was this huge wave of “General Knowledge” contests. Kids were supposed to know wierd facts, like “Which is the longest non-technical word in the English language?” floccinaucinihilipilification (Attaboy! 10 points to you).  Manorma Year Book was the gold standard, I must have picked this word from there.

However, that’s  not how “BeCar” is used for in this blog. Here it used as a Hinglish word that means “Without Car” or Car less.

After a lot of discussions ( my mother was really unhappy with my decision) I posted my seller ad on OLX in April and sold the car on July 31, 2018. I do not plan to buy another car.

So, what’s the point? Why did I sell the car? Here are abberations of 4 book titles that explain this experiment with life– Oops! did I borrow that one too?

This is also my Twitter style review of these books:

BeCar Soup for the Sole


chicken soup fo the soul

 

Gives me more time on the soles.

I walk to meetings upto 2km

I bike to run errands upto 15km

Our vacations are Runacations

Spend on car insurance goes to running gear

Spend on car maintenance goes to  marathons.

Try BeCar-ing Your Soul

 

Bhaskar Dilbert

I’m a huge fan for Dilbert but I never felt ‘dilberted’ im my life until Inner Engineering happened to me.  I always  thought happiness is car. However, after Inner Engineering I realised I was miserable inside the car and outside.

So why do I need the car?

Instead, let me try to  reboot life with Sadhguru. The car is definitely not the ‘ultimate’ vehicle.

Maybe, I can build a car within.

 

If it’s shared economy, Go BeCar

if its raining in brazil buy Starbucks

 

As a middle class Indian child I heard adults say that successful people have a car and super successful people have a car with chauffeur.

Damn You Uber and Ola!

beacause of you

I have CARS and CHAUFFEURS

you have disrupted my childhood goals.

And ZoomCar gives me the option to drive when I want.

 

Stay BeCar, Stay Experimenting

stay hungry stay foolish

 

For 18 years I have owned a car.

That’s too many years of comfort.

I need to get to a discomfort zone.

To discover possibilities.

Hey there! are you driving my way?

May I hop on?

 

Signing off note on India’s 72 Independence Day

 

Shweta still owns a car which I will be using to run errands, get to run starting points at 4:00am and beat Uber surge pricing, once in a while.

All book titles and images are properties of their respective owners.

The बेकार Things About BeCar Things! If you have invested your time reading this, please comment. Will motivate me to do BeCar Things!

The Hard Things About Hard Things

 

10 Commandments to Hack Your Health

On Your Marks!
I have been working on Internet & Mobile technologies for more than 17 years. That means I’m on my workstation 10-12 hours everyday. Human body is not designed to sit long hours, stare at screens of various sizes 72??? to 4“ and keep hitting the keyboard. Recently, when I showed off my workstation to my friends on Whatsapp one of them who is in the Armed Forces commented “I have No Workstation, However my work takes me to stations???. I believe that’s the kind of lifestyle Human Body is designed for.

Set!
By end of 2013, 15 years of abuse had started showing on my body, I was unhealthy and weighed 98 Kilos.

Then things changed and I Hacked my Health in 18 months. By August 2015 I ran My First Timed Half Marathon.

It’s almost a year now after my first timed Half Marathon (September 05, 2015), I weigh on an average 67- 69 Kg and have ran distances of 21 KM or more 34 times with my personal best of 1:53:46 for 21 Km.

I’m just a beginner in the world of distance running and have miles to go. This blog is a summary of how I got admission into the school of Health and Endurance. How I hacked my health.

Go!

1. It all Starts with a Challenge.
I was  living a happy life throwing my weight around everyone/ everything (literally). Parking assistants and security guards never messed up with me- I thought, they think I was a mini Hulk!
And then it happened, on a vacation in December 2013, my wife Shweta @Shwetalakhimpur (who had been practicing yoga for 6 months) challenged me to Supta Vajrasana (Reclined Thunderbolt Pose). I could never get into the asana and ended up feeling Dizzy! That is the moment I realized I was no Hulk, I was Bulk.
Lot has been said about Body Shaming lately, however, I believe, If you care for someone it’s your moral obligation to challenge.


2. You are what you Eat.
Until 2013 my meal plan was simple. Big Breakfast ( 3 Alu/ Paneer Parathas), Bigger Indian Lunch and Biggest Indian Dinner. I felt starved if I did not have 3 whiskeys, Tandoori Platter, Dal Makhani and 2 Rotis Friday evening.
Changing food habit was  not simple. In the first few months I added Maggi Masala to salads and fruits to make it taste like ‘food’. However, the hack worked, I stayed the course.
Today my staple is salad. Thanks to stores and startups like Natures Basket, Green Tokri,  Olive Plato it is much easier to eat healthy.


3. You are your Sleep.
Since I started competitive education (read Class 7) the goal was to put in long hours at desk or staring at the idoit box. By the time I started working I was sleeping on an average 4 hours a day.
Today I sleep 7 Hours on average, have clocked 10 hours+ and we have not had cable TV at home for 3 years.

4. Know your Path.
It is super important to know your path.  For example “ 5KG weight loss in 1 month??? or “join a Running Group” does not work for me. These are super awesome ways however, not for me. For 2 reasons-
I have never believed in “Instant”, apart from “Maggi”
My work week is full of meeting  people and working with teams, I want My Time.
For me the inspirations to hack my health has been the Internet and people who do not want to meet me. There’s tons of information, inspiration available. Seek and you shall get! For me Darth Vader, Yoda and Buddha are all heroes, You decide your path.


5. Get the right Gear
Indians are “Jugaadu??? and our priorities are misplaced when it come to health. For example, typical  Indian male would have 3-5 shoes for office however, one shoe for Walking, Running, Gym, Cycling, hiking and every other sport. We pay for health insurance but do not spend on health. I was no different. However,  after 2013 I have made serious investments on my health that includes:

  • Trek 4300 with 2 sets of tyres for Road and Mountain.
  • Thule Bike Carrier
  • Fitbit Flex and Fitbit Surge
  • Hiking Boots
  • Inov8 Shoes
  • ++

Talking Of Inov8, I recently retired a pair. Here’s my Thank you to my partner.

Next on my list is Garmin Fenix 2 Performance Bundle. However, currently it is over budget. I’m accepting donation, inbox me, if you are interested 🙂
6. Track your Progress and Reward yourself.
For my profession I live by data and applied the same to Health. I tracked every Yoga session, Cycling Trip and Run. Looked at fat burn in each workout and over a period developed a plan for myself. A plan that works.
I have also developed a reward program for myself. Here’s 2 hack you may want try
Weighfies– When my weight reach south of 90s I was very happy and clicked a photo of the weighing scale to remember the date, after that day I clicked photo of the weighing scale every time I lost a kilo. So now I have a collection on my Google Photos called Weighfies!
BOLT– It’s tough on your body to cycle for 6 hours or run for 3 hours so you have to have a system to Reward yourself. Gatorade is my Reward! In India you get 3 flavors of Gatorade (Orange, Yellow and Blue- called BOLT). At the end of the exercise I give Reward myself BOLT if I achieve the target, if I miss the target it’s Yellow and if I’m way off it’s Orange. That’s my order of taste preference and also makes me feel like Usain Bolt for a few Hours 🙂

7. When the going Gets tough, forget your goal, think of the next milestone.
I started this journey I had set the weight target of 80Kgs- 18 Kg weight loss in 12 months. Losing first few Kgs was simple- essentially water in you body/ fat. However, the journey from 95- 90 was arduous and never ending.  It took me 4 months to shred next 2 kgs. The math did not seem to work, at that rate I needed 2 years to get to 80.
I went back to my learnings from my profession- The Lean Startup Methodology. I reset my goals. Now my goal was Lose 3 KG in the next 4 months- Or 25% better result than than last sprint.

8. You will be Embarrassed, do not give up, find solution.
After my first 2 15KM runs my Fluorescent Yellow T- Shirt was all red.  I realized my Nipple was bleeding. Now anything to do with their own nipple is embarrassing for men. I had almost decided to give up running and go back to cycling.
I did not want to go to a doctor with this problem so I put soframycin on my nipples and spent the weekend search the web. Turns out it is a very common problem with runners and could happen is warm or cold climate. It is called Runners Nipple. Primary reason- your T- Shirt rubbing against the nipple. Solution- wear fitting singlets ( I was wearing XL shirts from Bulk days when my frame was M) and applying Vaseline before the run. Ordered 2 medium running Singlets and a large box of Vaseline. Problem solved.
Pro Tip: Wear only Black Singlets! You never Know 🙂 

9. Listen to your body
In my opinion fitness is about your personal best and not competing with others. Non- runners have this notion that running is about reaching the finish line  before others. That is not what health and endurance is about, specially if you are above 30.  It is about improving “personal best”– podium finish will happen some day. Listen to you body and feel the rhythm.

10. Do not believe your body.
This is corollary to 9. You should listen to your body, however, you body has this trick to cheat you and conserve energy. Push your body and it will do more.
In my cycling trips and runs there are days when my body tricks me and I’m left with a lot of energy after the finish line. I feel horrible on those days and keep thinking I could have gone further or faster.
“If life is a walk from womb to tomb your handicap out of womb and bruises at tomb do not matter. Do your best and Hack your Health” Closing Remarks from Rio 2016 :))

 

10 Life Hacks from The Rickshaw Challenge-2016

Last week  I was part of a super awesome road trip with Mukesh Jha , Janardan Prasad, 19 other teams and the support staff & team of The Travel Scientists. What is Rickshaw Challenge – Malabar Rampage?  You can read all about Rickshaw Challenge here, however very simply put an incredible ~1200KM ride on 3 wheels ( Rickshaw/ Tuk Tuk) on Indian Roads.

Loads of Fun, Lots of Challenges and Humbling Experiences. Here are the top 10 Life Hacks I learnt in this trip and credits to people, event, places for the learnings.

1. What’s in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet

Read: It Takes a bad ass to run the show. Call him Luke, John or Aravind 🙂

Credit: Aravind, Princely and The Travel Scientists- Don’t reason with Indians, smile 🙂

2. Junk the Manual.  Ride, Break, Fix. Repeat!

Credit: Chennai Garage Team- you are amazing clockwork!

3. Journey of 1000 mile begins with a single.. Crank

Credit: Practice Run. Go Mukesh Go! Thanks for taking the lead, revving and doing the donut moves for The Autowale.

4. when in Rome do as the Romans do and in Kerela do the Malayali 

Credit: Team Autowale.

 

5. what the heck Rome! Sumos are Sumos, Rome, Sydney, Japan or Mars

Credit: Butt, Sweat and Tears ( Chris, Mark, Hugo). Chris, Mark, Hugo you deserve the Bonkers Award. Who else would put up the Sumo costume for every event when it’s 40 degrees?

6. Life is a Journey! Live the Moment

Credit: India’s Coastline.

7. Share the Little Joys

Credit: Round Table and  Goan Places (Sheila and Nic.) Sheila and Nic raised over $20K sharing their journey with friends to support Schools and Education in India.

8. When life gives lemon, make lemon mint iced tea.

Credit: Awesome Food of India

9. Consistent and Persistent Win!

Credit: Stairway (Paul and Alex).  Paul and Alex were always consistent, very friendly and never too loud. Cheers!

10. Work Harder, Party Harder

Credit:Flying Birds (Thomas and Waltraud)- While we took turns to ride the rickshaw, typically doing 60- 80 Km/ day/ person. Thomas did 200-270KM everyday on his own. We ordered 1 beer in the evening Thomas ordered 3!

 

 

Why wait for the right time – Dispatch into the future now!

In today’s social web there are very few secrets we keep just for ourselves. Most of our personal data is online on some or the other social network, there for everyone to see. Here’s letting you in on a secret – a whole new way to keep secrets and share them with only the people you choose – World Without Me.

World Without Me is a new platform to connect with your loved ones not just during your lifetime but also afterlife. Its a personal data preservation and digital afterlife solution provider which has a cool system in place through which you can send messages (christened Dispatches), with audio and video attachments, for delivery at anytime in the future. You can send secret messages and appoint secret keepers by letting others in on the message by sharing it with them beforehand. Others can add their bit to the message too.

For instance, you are planning a secret event and don’t want word to spread like wildfire across the Internet (your extended network). You can send secret messages to only those people you want to invite and choose when the message should be delivered to them so that there isn’t much chance for the cat to be out of the bag at the first drop.

Another reason World Without Me Dispatches are super useful is that you can write messages now and have them delivered at a point in time you wish thus making your communication more effective. Suppose you have a nine year old daughter and you want to send her your thoughts from today on something you think would influence her life in a better way like a great book to read or a good movie to watch or even a short video of you giving advice. You can simply schedule a dispatch for her for say, her 18th birthday and World Without Me promises to deliver it on time.

We do not want to think about death, most of us. It is too morbid for some and too scary for others. Some are too young to think about it. However, at some point,after investing and nurturing relationships one starts to think about ones Legacy. How would your future generations remember you? How important is it for you to send your last message out to the world before your departure?

Dispatches are part of the legacy you leave behind for your loved ones to connect with your memories. This could be a last farewell message or some secret you wanted to share with them but couldn’t when you were alive. You can ease a lot of pain by scheduling your last message to go out to your loved ones, helping them feel better and still connected with you.

Remember the movie P.S. I Love You starring Gerard Butler and Hilary Swank? Holly goes all over the place looking for her dead husband Gerry’s 10 letters to help ease her pain and start a new life. It would have been so much easier if she had had access to World Without Me! All she would have to do is sit in front of her laptop and wait for his messages to be delivered to her as scheduled- right into her World Without Me Dispatch Inbox!

Dispatches on World Without Me

Take control of your Digital Footprint

Wikipedia’s definition of a digital footprint is,???In social media, a digital footprint is the size of an individuals online presence; as it relates to the number of individuals they interact with.???  However your digital footprint covers not just your social media activity, but ALL your online activity.

A recent article in Network World using research from AVG discovered that 73% of children under 2 already have a digital footprint, due to parents sharing photos and information on social networks.  Depending on your parents your digital footprint begins before birth, with scans emailed or put on Flickr, a Facebook account set up in advance or name suggestions posted on Facebook and so on.

Harris Interactive conducted a survey in which around 90% of Americans indicated they wanted more control over the information that is available about them online. I suspect that, in this case, Americans are speaking for all of us. Because people use websites and search engines to find out information about others, the fact is that our online identity is now as important as our “offline??? personal or professional reputation.

Here are some basics to get you started in discovering what your general footprint is on the internet.  Start your personal discovery and begin reflecting on the questions below.

Start in the obvious way and just Google yourself by typing your name into Google’s search box in whatever way(s) someone doing a search about you might i.e. John Smith, teacher. Take a look at what you see.

Sign up for Google Alerts to receive email updates of the latest relevant Google results about you by simply visiting the site and entering your name. You can click preview to see the type of results you’ll receive.

Spezify is a search tool presenting results from a large number of websites in different visual ways. The site moves web search away from endless lists of blue text links and towards a more intuitive experience giving viewers an overview of a subject. The site mixes all media types: blogs, videos, microblogs and images. Everything communicates and helps building the bigger picture.

  • People Searches

There are several people searches.  Are you listed?  Here are some common ones to check.

http://www.zabasearch.com

http://pipl.com

www.123people.com

While the initial reaction by some when they discover they are listed is concern, keep in mind that people have been listed in phone books for a very long time. There is no evidence that having this information available is cause for concern. Instead, the primary cause of danger is rarely by strangers.  Instead  when it comes to maltreatment of children the number one source is in the home followed by a close friend or family member.

Now that you have discovered the extent of your digital footprint you may wish to preserve it for your future generations and loved ones. Our online lives are an extension of our physical lives and our family can get a peep at our memories if we take some simple steps to store and pass on our digital footprint. Digital Estate Planning websites like World Without Me help individuals to pull all their significant digital footprint from the Internet onto one safe and secure platform and pass it on as they choose to their heirs.

It is time to take control of your Digital Life. Start today!

PuneConnect 2011

Team World Without Me Thanks SEAP, PuneTechPOCC and TiEPune for the opportunity to showcase  at PuneConnect  2011 on November 05. We enjoyed the event. Here’s  Pune Mirror Talking about the Event and World Without Me.

Live on digitally after your death
Pune techie’s ‘World Without Me’ website conserves all of one’s online property, helps leave it as an inheritance
Nitin Brahme
Posted On Monday, November 07, 2011 at 05:43:50 AM

Many of us have let the morbid thought cross our minds, ‘What would happen if I were to suddenly die?’ And in today’s world, one important aspect to worry about is how one’s digital assets will be taken care of after one’s passing. With this in mind, a Puneite has come up with the website ‘World Without Me’, all set to take care of one’s digital assets after they die.

The innovative site got attention at the event ‘PuneConnect2011’, an initiative by the Software Exporters Association of Pune (SEAP), The Indus Entrepreneur (TiE), the Pune Open Coffee Club (POCC) and PuneTech. On Saturday, startups presented various ideas before SEAP members. Bhaskar Thakur, an alumnus of Fergusson College and PUMBA, came up with World Without Me (WWM) to allow people to create a digital ‘afterlife’ by storing all their web passwords in an online vault, to be bequeathed to their heirs after death.

The site can send recorded messages in the future, create an autobiography on the go by archiving and curating the social networks one participates in and creates private discussions as well. Soon, says Bhaskar, it will offer country-specific estate planning tools, and mentoring and coaching for life challenges.

This site is open to all and a first of it’s kind, says Bhaskar. On this forum, one can forward and store important mails, passwords, documents, Facebook posts and updates as well as tweets from Twitter. One can also store soft copies of documents like insurance and other certificates here.

An account on the World Without Me forum conserves all your important mails, Facebook updates and Twitter tweets, which will pass on to your heir after you die
On your WWM account, you have to nominate heirs who will be bequeathed a ‘trigger’, which they can press after the nominator’s death to get all of the above. You can also create a message for someone with audio or video attachments and schedule it for delivery in the future. You may keep a selected few Secret Keepers in the know about these dispatches. These messages can reach your loved ones on birthdays, anniversaries, etc. even in a world without you.

Gaurav Mehra, president of SEAP and managing director at Saba India, said, “SEAP will take special efforts to sustain exposure for startups in the future. We are making arrangements to get introductions made between established companies and startups through a series of smaller activities throughout the year.

What happens to your online life after you die?

Our predecessors archived their Photographs, Diaries and Documents to build their legacies and this legacy was passed on from one generation to the next. With the increasing role of the Internet in our lives, our legacy for the next generation is locked up in the cloud and governed by the Terms Of Service of the service providers ( Gmail, Facebook, Yahoo). Ever wonder how our future generations will access our legacy and know about us?
We have a thriving online life on social networks, blogs, email, and many websites. We are the first generation  to create significant Digital Assets and also the first generation to face the issue of a Digital Afterlife. We must take measures to preserve and pass on our online lives so that our heirs and loved ones have access to our memories and information to tie up our digital loose ends after we are gone.
Recently,many cases of a loved one’s passing away have been reported, with no information left behind for heirs and friends to help them to access the deceased person’s digital life. Loved ones are left with the dilemma of having to deal with a deceased person’s online account  in case they do manage to access it after a long retrieval process. Should they erase certain data from it, preserve it or shut it down? Most people do not provide details and instructions for their online accounts in their last will and testament.

Like Libby, there are many cases where passwords are not left behind, which can cause hassles for heirs. In an article in The Guardian, was the story of Donna Rowling who had to cope with our husband’s online presence after his demise which was quite a disturbing experience for her.

Donna Rawling lost her husband, Tom Cooper, in July last year. “I managed to wrap up his affairs, but the area that I was left with was his presence on the web,” she says. Tom was a motorcycle enthusiast, visiting many different countries on his bike and posting pictures of his travels on his blog. He was also a member of Friends Reunited and probably “a myriad of other sites” of which Rawling is unaware. She describes his continuing presence on the web as “eerie”, and would like some of the information removed.”Normally you get in touch with friends and acquaintances and colleagues and let them know what’s happened,” she says. “That gives you closure and stops you being contacted in future and asked how you both are. But to my knowledge, there’s no way of doing that with the web. The perception is that he is still alive and well and having fun on his motorbike.”

The Gaurdian article carried another story about Tom Stuart and his son, which highlighted the deceased user policies of major websites and why it is important to know the policies that websites you frequent have on deceased user accounts.

Tom Stuart was an active eBay member until he passed away in November 2007. His son, Darren, believes there could be up to £1,000 in his father’s PayPal account. But he has been unable to gain access: his father left no will and no indication of what the password might be.

Stuart emailed the account review team in March 2008 in the hope of withdrawing any funds in the account. “All I got back was an automated response,” he says. “I phoned the customer services department and eventually got put through to someone. He wanted a solicitor’s letter saying I was the executor of the estate. I told him, ‘We don’t have that information. There was no will.’ And the response was basically, ‘That’s our policy.’ ”

Death in life these days doesn’t mean death on the Internet. New Times tells the story of Peggy and how she wrote about her battle with cancer on her blog and Facebook page. She gained many followers who avidly read her blog. Her Facebook page garnered a lot of attention and she had a huge fan following. More than two years after her passing, they’re both thriving. Peggy’s brother took over her blog before she died and never stopped writing about memories of his sister and updates about her family. Her husband and children took over her Facebook page.

Mark Leslie blogged about a friend whom he had known 5 years through the Internet but never met. They were blogger friends. A month after her death he found out about her demise through some blogger friends. He paid a tribute to her on his blog saying,

World Without Me – Privacy in the Digital World

Today, netizens live very public lives. With Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIN, Google+, Flickr and many other social networks it has become difficult to keep your personal life out of the public eye.  Also, the privacy settings on these websites can be very confusing.

Stalking on Social Web

World Without Me offers a solution in one simple word – “Percial???; very simply put, Personal + Social. “Percial” is the basis of some cool features on the Digital Afterlife planning website – www.worldwithoutme.com. World Without Me tools like Discussions and Dispatches help make your web experience percial – i.e. perfect blend of personal space while still giving an option to be selectively social.

World Without Me Discussions are closed private conversations which are perfect for talking about an important issue or planning a secret event with your close friends and family. Only the people you invite to a Discussion can view and participate in that particular Discussion. For example, you want to throw your best friend a surprise birthday party. you may start a Discussion on World Without Me inviting a few close friends to discuss the details of the party in secret out of sight of party poopers.

 Dispatches on World Without Me is a cool way to schedule messages for future delivery. You could set a future message to be delivered next week, or next year or even after a decade! You can also set Dispatches to be forwarded to your loved in your Digital Afterlife.

Moreover, you can personalize Dispatches by attaching audio or video clips or any file you would like to share with the recipient. For example, you want to send a future message to your spouse on your anniversary, containing a video montage of your last vacation together. You can create and attach the video montage to your Dispatch and schedule it for delivery on the date of your anniversary.

To add to your Percial experience, you can create a Digital Autobiography on the go by archiving your Digital Footprint at World Without Me. You can add important emails, upload documents, archive your Tweets and Facebook updates to your Digital Footprint and share it with your close friends and family during your lifetime and also after death.

The percial experience at World Without Me is a relief from the otherwise increasingly creepy social network scenario present today. Don’t think social networks are creepy? Well you surely have another thought coming after this app experience.

Planning Digital Afterlife Socially at World Without Me

The way we live and the way we die is changing. The trend is captured very well by the Doonesbury strip from earlier this week.
Doonesbury- Digital Afterlife
According to PC Mag, more people are making plans for their digital afterlife. In the U.K., one out of 10 people are now leaving passwords in a will.
Your Digital Afterlife is what you choose to do with all your digital data and your digital life once you die. Generally, a person’s digital life includes email accounts, social networks, blogs, websites, etc. which a person has invested a lot of time in and would like to pass on to his loved ones so that it’s not lost in the universe of digital data. Digital Assets could also include login credentials, Banking, financial and insurance information, Paypal, etc. which a person would like to pass on to his heirs so that they have easy access to all this important info after his demise.

There are few digital afterlife planning websites available today offering some of the three broad categories of Afterlife services-

1. Posthumous Messaging – Send out One/ Few messages after your Death.
2. Vault for Passwords – These websites let you store your digital assets like login credentials, PIN numbers and other sensitive information which you might want to pass on to your heirs.
3. Online Memorial/ Online Graveyard- A place to remember you and Online Mourning.

However  to effectively plan one’s digital afterlife one would have to register with several different digital estate planning websites as most of these websites offer different afterlife services but not all. World Without Me fills this gap. It’s a cool site where you can connect with those that matter and curate your Digital Afterlife socially.

Curate Digital Afterlife socially? Yes! Tools like Footprint, Discussions and Trigger help you curate Digital Afterlife Socially.

World Without Me allows you to Archive Digital Footprint and create an Autobiography of sorts. Digital Footprint may include important emails, Facebook updates and Tweets. You can also add important documents like a copy of your Last Will and Testament, Appraisal Letters, Personal Letters- it is a true Mashup of your Online and Offline Digital Assets. You may choose to share your footprint with your loved ones during your lifetime or after your demise.

World Without Me Discussions are designed to support personal and private conversations like planning a trip with friends that a person doesn’t want the world to know about, closed conversations with friends and family, planning a surprise party, tracking a parent’s health, planning family finances or anything that is meaningful or important.

The deceased user account policies on most major websites is vague. Your heirs have to go through an arduous legal process before they can access your online accounts. Trigger is a tool that allows users to decide who will declare their demise and when will their Digital Inheritance be set in motion. It is a great new system to pass on your digital legacy to your heirs – directly from within your World Without Me account and without any lawyers!

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Digital Afterlife- Planning your digital legacy 101

AfterlifeYou know you will leave the world one day – It is inevitable. However, do you know what will become of your online lives? The ones on Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, Hotmail, Gmail and Yahoo?

Will they be lost in oblivion in this digital universe? Or will they be passed on to your family and your heirs will have access to your online lives?

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Most online platforms and websites have vague digital afterlife policies and it is not clear what will happen to your account once you die. Your family or close friends who might want to access your accounts may not be able to do so before going through tedious document submissions and in some cases, even legal counsel.

 

Facebook, for example, gives an option to memorialize a deceased person’s profile once they receive intimation of death of a user. Memorializing an account removes certain sensitive information and sets privacy so that only confirmed friends can see the profile. A family member or friend has to fill out a brief form and provide proof of death of the user like an obituary or news article.

In the event of the death of a Twitter user, they close the account and help family members recover public Tweets from the account after they provide them with the following:
1. First and last name, contact information (including email address), and relationship to the deceased person.
2. The username of the Twitter account, or a link to the account’s public profile page.
3. A link to a public obituary article.
You may contact Twitter at privacy@twitter.com They may not hand over access to the account, or share any non public information related to the account. Here’s Twitter’s deceased user policy page
MySpace deceased user policy states that if you are the next of kin, they will not grant you access to edit, or delete any of the content or settings on the account yourself. You can email accountcare@support.myspace.com and attach appropriate documentation such as a death certificate of the deceased user, their MySpace ID and request them to either preserve, remove content or delete the account altogether.

Gmail’s policy for accessing a deceased user’s account is a lengthy two-part process. First, you need to send them the following information:
1. Your full name
2. Your physical mailing address
3. Your email address
4. A photocopy of your government-issued ID or driver’s license
5. The Gmail address of the deceased user
6. The death certificate of the deceased user.
7. The following information from an email message that you have received at your email address, from the Gmail address in question:
o The full header from the email message. Copy everything from ‘Delivered-To:’ through the ‘References:’ line
o The entire content of the message
You will need to mail or fax this information to Google at:
Google Inc.
Gmail User Support – Decedents’ Accounts
c/o Google Custodian of Records
1600 Amphitheatre Parkway
Mountain View, CA 94043
Fax: 650-644-0358
The second part involves a review of your request by Google and if approved, you will be required to get additional legal process including an order from a U.S. court and/or submitting additional materials. Even after all this it is not guaranteed that you will be given access to the deceased user’s account. Here’s  Gmail’s policy page.

Hotmail requires you to send an email to msrecord@microsoft.com requesting that they preserve the email content for a specified deceased user account while you gather the necessary paperwork they ask for so you may gain access to the account. They preserve it for 6 months, after which they delete the account. To gain access you need to provide Hotmail with the following:
1. An e-mail address that can be used to contact you in case of questions
2. A shipping address to ship the data to
3. A document that states that you are the benefactor or the executor to the deceased’s estate and/or that you have power of attorney for an incapacitated customer and/or are next of kin
4. A photocopy of your driver’s license or other government- issued identification
5. A photocopy of the death certificate
6. Account name
7. First and last name of the person who owns the account
8. Date of birth
9. City, state, and ZIP Code/Postal Code
10. The approximate date of account creation
11. The approximate date of last sign in
Here’s more information on Hotmail’s policy.

Yahoo has a much stricter deceased user policy. No one can gain access to your account once you die as Yahoo will not grant permission to anyone to access a deceased user’s account. You can only request them to delete a dead user’s account.

Of course, if you plan your digital afterlife a you may save your family from a lot of painful hassle after your death. One such website, World Without Me has various tools like Vault, which lets you create assets of all your digital information like login credentials and other sensitive documents in one safe and secure place and pass it on directly to your loved ones without any middlemen or legal hassles. You can also choose who will receive what just like in a Will. You may use the Trigger tool to set up who will declare your demise, and when your digital inheritance will be set in motion.